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Showing posts with label independent. Show all posts

Wednesday, 26 August 2020

Reasons why we cannot forget SSR


Sushant Singh Rajput. It was a blow when we got to know about his death. We all felt as if one of our close relative died suddenly. It was really hard to digest what was going on. 14th June was just another day for us but suddenly the day created a huge impact on our minds. Before his death nobody thought so deeply about him but after his death we regretted. We audience started looking out for evidences on our own out of curiosity to know what actually happened. 

Slowly Slowly it became a mass movement and fight for justice against the Bollywood system. 

Ever wondered why his death became such a big blow to our mind. Here's why



1. He was born in Patna, Bihar. A place from where making big in Bollywood is very difficult and mere illusion.

2. His mother died when he was 16. But it didn't stop him to achieve what he want, he worked hard for his mother. He was broken yet he achieved.

3. He was all India rank holder 7 in engineering. He was doing mechanical engineering. Hard to believe that he was making a mark in Bollywood when other celebs are just mediocre or even less than that in studies.

4. He was Physics Olympiad as well. Hard to believe that a Bollywood actor is a Physics Olympiad but its true.

5. Sushant Singh Rajput was the lead as Manav in Pavitra Rishta. It was a big hit show. He became a household name back then. Even now our parents remember him as Manav and not Sushant. Though he started his career as a background dancer.

6. He was a very hard working actor. His helicopter shot in Dhoni is a clear example. I bet you will not be able to differentiate between Dhoni and Sushant.

7. He made a handwritten list of 50 dreams to fulfill and he was working on it. His social handles has glimpse of the wishes he achieved.

8. He was an outsider with no Godfather. He was left out from other Bollywood actors which is clearly visible in his interviews appearances. He was a very down to earth person. If we were in this showbiz we would realize how difficult it is for us to stand among those so called rich glamorous people.

9. He has the most expensive telescope and he used to look at the planets moon everyday. He was very nerdy and knowledgeable person which is very hard to see in this showbiz.

We all have a Sushant within us. We middle class people out of our hustle and responsibilities couldn't achieve our dreams but Sushant did. He inspired us and made us believe even if you dont have enough resources you can still achieve what you want. The crowd is mostly middle class people who dont belong to those well privileged troops who are well equipped to achieve their dreams. After looking at Sushant  we realized that we can also go for it but after his death all our belief was shattered. This movement rightfully became a global for all the aspirants as their dreams seem to be endangered.

(Pic Source- Getty image)

Tuesday, 18 August 2020

Why are We So Different

Like a son, even we daughters concentrated on studies and our life only, before getting married. Still we are 'trained enough' to complete all the household task. Why are we expected that we forget our lifestyle and our family values, our parents teachings and adjust. 

Our way of living or working is different but it is not incorrect for sure. 

Long lectures and fights when husbands are asked to get the lunch served for himself or wipe a table or wash the dishes or sometimes make a small meal. Why is that so. This is your house too and doing his things on your own would only make you self-sufficient. Otherwise it would just boost my importance and give you a fake ego and respect. 

Just because you are my husband and i showed my point of view accordingly i became a nasty woman trying to defend her husband and came in between a son and a mother. Instead If i had defended a brother i know there would not been such a reaction but Just because it was a husband they took it otherwise why is the word HUSBAND itself so much taken otherwise. 

This is 2020. All woman are educated, mature and well independent, no one will ever take so much by staying quiet no matter if its in law or your own mother.