Why are We So Different

Like a son, even we daughters concentrated on studies and our life only, before getting married. Still we are 'trained enough' to complete all the household task. Why are we expected that we forget our lifestyle and our family values, our parents teachings and adjust. 

Our way of living or working is different but it is not incorrect for sure. 

Long lectures and fights when husbands are asked to get the lunch served for himself or wipe a table or wash the dishes or sometimes make a small meal. Why is that so. This is your house too and doing his things on your own would only make you self-sufficient. Otherwise it would just boost my importance and give you a fake ego and respect. 

Just because you are my husband and i showed my point of view accordingly i became a nasty woman trying to defend her husband and came in between a son and a mother. Instead If i had defended a brother i know there would not been such a reaction but Just because it was a husband they took it otherwise why is the word HUSBAND itself so much taken otherwise. 

This is 2020. All woman are educated, mature and well independent, no one will ever take so much by staying quiet no matter if its in law or your own mother.